Attraction, Unforced

I’m Nicole Siegel, a certified intimacy educator and creator of the Body Compass Method. I work with high-functioning women who are deeply self-aware — and still exhausted by relationship dynamics that ask them to carry more than their share. My work isn’t about fixing women or blaming men. It’s about interrupting inherited relational patterns so attraction, polarity, and intimacy can reorganize naturally — without force, shame, or endless processing.

This is for you if:

• you love him… but flinch a little when he reaches for you
• you miss wanting him — and hate that you can’t fake it anymore
• you’re so used to being the emotionally competent one that you forgot what it feels like to relax in a relationship
• you don’t want to blow your life up — you just want to stop carrying the whole thing
• you can feel it in your body: if you could actually rest, desire would come back on its own

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Attraction Unforced is a live, one-night initiation for women who are done mothering grown men and calling it intimacy.

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You’ll learn:

• why attraction shuts off specifically when you become the emotional backbone
• the exact relational dynamic that kills polarity (and why no amount of talking fixes it)
• how to disengage from emotional over-functioning without withdrawing love​
• how responsibility can shift without ultimatums, threats, or waiting for him to “figure it out”

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This isn’t therapy.
It’s not couples counseling.
And it’s definitely not another communication framework that puts you back in charge of managing his growth.

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It’s a kill switch for the pattern that’s been draining women for generations.

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